noun: the right or chance to choose (“Given my druthers, I’d eat cake”)
He wanted to spend what might be his last hour with her, close to the fire, holding her in his arms. His druthers were to strip off her clothes and bury himself inside her, brand himself into her memory with what time he had left, but that seemed as likely as the tablets suddenly manifesting themselves in his hands.–Moning, Karen Marie (2008-05-20). Kiss of the Highlander (Kindle Locations 1836-1838). Random House, Inc.. Kindle Edition.
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